A few months ago one of my sorority sisters, Grace, went to
her country, Nigeria and of course she brought my line sisters and I GIFTS!
(Line Sister: person(s) who go through the intake process with you. This
applies to Greek organizations.) Anywho, Grace brought waist beads for my Line
sister Nickiesha. When I notice that Grace is helping my line sister put on
these beads, I’m thinking of Shakira moving her hips. So the whole time my line
sister is putting on these beads I’m wondering what’s the point in them. If I were
to buy them -which I wouldn't I would use them to dance around or something. But
overall, they looked beautiful and I wanted to learn more. I don’t think that a
lot of people understand or know about waistbeads. So I decided to write a blog
about it, for those who do not know of them. The video below explains a bit
about the back ground of waist beads.
Many women of varies cultures have embraced this beautiful accessory.
My line sister Nickiesha is Jamaican, so she too is embracing this ornament. However
before it became a phenomenon, thee beads were consider to have varies purposes
depending on the culture.
Today, anyone can wear the beads, anytime and anywhere. Here is a cool tutorial on how to make your own beads. Enjoy!
I don't necessarily remember the first time I pierced my
ears. My mami says it was when I was about 4 months old. “Girls need to wear earrings;
Men don’t.” In our Dominican culture, expressing your feminine side is considered
antiquate for a woman. A woman acting butch, is looked down upon (wayyyy down) by Dominicans. Even though I
know my mother didn't mean anything by it, there were times that I wondered
what would happen if I went on strike against earrings. She is the reason why I
feel naked if I do not wear earrings. Because I became infatuated with earrings,
I had two more piercings done on both of my ears and very soon I will get my
fourth one.
Here are some different type of earrings that random people use. If you are interested in hoop earrings I recommend starting small and working your way...larger? Personally I enjoy buying big hoop earrings. But for the virgin users, start small. Enjoy!
Hoop Earrings:
I love love love to wear hoop earrings!
I don’t know why but hoop earrings
look Gansta!
These are some other hoop selections...
(oh yea! Believe it! Gadaba women, who originate from Koraput,(Southern Orissa) In India, enjoy wearing a lot of bangles, beads and huge brass hoop earings.)
Studs:
When it comes to this type of earring, I do my best to be
careful what I wear with them. Studs are
more of an elegant earring. Studs are classified as earrings that are not bigger
than the ear. In other words the earrings should not dangle, like hoop
earrings. The way I look at it some studs
are bigger than others but they are still studs if I wear studs, I would
usually put my hair up or my cloths would have an elegant feel to it.
There are some studs depending on the metal (gold, platinum,
silver etc) that are expensive. I personally do not own extravagant gold studs,
but many women wear them to night galas etc.
There are other earrings that I classify as studs, such as
stick-on, clip-on, magnetic earrings. Sticks on earrings are usually worn by
those who do not or wouldn't like to have their ears pierced. These earrings
can easily be sticked on. Clip-on and magnetic earrings are used for the same
purpose considering that a person does not need to have a piercing in order to
use them.
Gauges:
Rock N’ Roll! For any reason am I going my stereotype when I
say this, but gauges are for rock people. Even though anyone can wear these earrings
– I've seen it- I mostly see people who are punk, emo etc. wearing these. This earring is rather fat and the cartiledge in the ear needs to be strenched in order for it to go through the piercing.
If for any reason, you are thinking about getting a piercing of any sort please go to a professional. Be advised that there are health risks. Take a peek at this video about the type of earring is best for your ear. Enjoy!
Since the beginning of the Stone Age, which was about 40,000
years ago (whoa long time!), necklaces have been created, destroyed, remade, or
simply passed on and worn. Today, there are many styles of necklaces to choose
from due to the fashion world’s evolution. I try my best to search for unique
necklaces that aren't necessarily part of the norm.
Choker
Chokers are beautiful! This accessory hug the wearer’s neck
in order to give it a little bit more flare. Just like I wear bracelet to give
my wrist a bit more of an accent, chokers are worn to do the same.
Pearl necklaces
This type of necklace has been worn for centuries due to its
finesse. The pearls are what make the
accessory overall because of its price. A pearl necklace can range from $100
and up. Even though I personally do not own a pearl necklace, I hope to one day
have one in my possession.
Pendants
Pendants consist of a jewel handing from an insignificant
chain. The jewel can vary from birthstones to even clocks or lockets. Pendants are useful for storing photos or for
having a watch. If i were to make my very own pendant, i would engrave "Made In Jersey -Steph" in the back. This type of necklace is more of a make-it-your-self accessory. However, do not get discouraged to buy one. Even though people say
that it is out of style, just like any other necklace, pendants amplify and
attract the beauty of the neck.
Rope necklaces can also be classified as a do-it-yourself accessory. Check out this cool tutorial on how to make your own rope necklace for a nice day at the beach!
Princess Necklace
Princess necklaces are similar to any other type of
necklace.Depending on the type of medal or pedants used, this accessory goes well with any time of genre of clothing. It can be
accompanied by a locket, charm or pendant, and looks divine on every form of
neck. So what makes this necklace different from others? The oval form of the necklace is similar to the form of the neck bone, making the wearer's neck more defined.
There are numerous traditions and meanings for rings.
Depending on the delicacy of the matter, rings are a symbol of a commitment
made. The jewelry itself is not important, it’s just material! But the fact
that it came from that special someone and it was given to you and it is only
for you *sigh* ... that’s what makes the ring worth wearing, worth having, and
worth taking care of.
Promise rings:
Promise rings symbolize commitment for one
another. From teenagers to adults, these rings are exchanged as a way to remind
one another that you both are on the same page, without any misunderstandings.
Purity ring:
Purity rings are more of ‘I’ll be faithful to my body and be
pure until I’m married.’These rings are
not seen everywhere because it’s the past now. Nick Jones was spotted with a
purity ring a few years back so technically it’s not completely gone. However,
purity rings are not used as often. These rings were a way for parents to
entrap their children under the watchful eyes of their religion and inner faith.
If the child was a devoted Christian, he/she would never think of breaking his/her
promise. In this era of smoking all
these herbs, partying until noon of the next day, and drinking until your liver
has had enough, there are a few religious families that still incorporate the
purity rings.
Engagement/Wedding Rings:
In Western society engagement rings are considered
important. This ring is given when a man OR woman proposes to another man or
woman. It’s one of those moments that we look forward to our entire life! The ring
symbolizes the pledge that you are taking to prepare and marry the person that
has proposed to you. The wedding ring is that given on the day of the wedding.
The ring symbolizes your commitment to that significant other.
Others...
Then there are all the other rings that I, for example, buy
and wear to make my hands look extra cute! Here are pictures of hands looking
extra fly with rings. Enjoy!
Hurricane Sandy left the nation with a smile and a
whole lot of damage! Not to mention the chilly weather that we have been
feeling lately.
One minute, I'm here
wearing my fall jacket...
and the next I'm in a hurry to find gloves and hats!
A few days ago I was outside raking the leaves of my
house, and I notice high school teenagers crossing the street. Some of the guys
were lifting their jeans due to the fact that their pants were half way down
their bottom. There was only one girl, who looked like she was just tagging
along. This child was the only person within the group wearing any winter accessories.
I’m assuming that she was the only person who checked the weather that morning.
I know for a fact that all those guys were freezing their cheeks off! Please do not be like these senseless fools. Bundle
up! You never know when winter’s breath will crept into your lungs.
Some winter accessories that are stylish AND can be used to help the
body evade the cold:
Infinity Scarves: protective
wind blocker for the cold. This scarf is different from traditional scarves. It
has no ends and is put on –instead of around- the neck. Try to get a wool
scarf –it is much warmer than an ordinary scarf. You can also use the
infinity scarf in varies ways. Check out this video!
In the end, any type of scarf is adequate!
Hats:hats are
essential during the Burrrr seasons, especially it’s snowing or just plain windy.
But with this type of hat, you not only are heating up your head but also your
ears. Don’t create ear popsicle!
Earmuffs:these ear
burners are classic accessories. They are not used as much but are still being
created in different and styles ways for both men and women. It's also a great way to NOT mess up your hairstyle. Time to get muffled up!
Head Warmers are similar and can also be used to warm up frozen ears!